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Vijay's Dream Girl



> Attributes

o Hair Style
- Has dark black hair that flows and is straight; can be
short, but not too short like a boy cut.  Slightly colored hair is
cool too..

o Face
- Has deep dark eyes; a pretty girl I knew in h.s. had a good example of this..
if you stared into her eyes, they were almost reddish... fiery..
- Her eyes should be big too...
- Medium to small nose..
- She should have a great smile... like when she shows teeth
it should be perfect, not coffee or smoke stains. In fact,
the smile is the most important to me. I should just melt if
I see her smile..
- Clear complexion. No pimples or pasty skin... no fat
hanging from chin..
- No facial hair

o Body
- Slim, Toned is good (but not buff)
- Skin color: Light to tan... fair skin..
- The 'good' parts of the body should be 'ample' hahahah...

o Fashion Sense
- Okay, this is a little personal, but I think it's really important
- RED is an awesome color for a girl. 
- Should know how to use make-up conservatively...
frickin' A, you'd be surprised how many girls here look
like a caked-up mess.  Too much eye shadow sucks: it
only looks good if it's light.  Black eye shadow looks bad if
it's heavy.
- Red lipstick is cool...pink is okay, black or blue is ugly.
It should be light though... heavy is terrible.
- Don't change your eye color..those contacts are ugly.
- Don't smoke.
- Wear things that fit well.. too loose or tight is awful.
- Earrings are cool.. like really cool, but I think piercings elsewhere are sick
... esp in tongues and eyes.
- Tattoos are a no-no.
 
o Height/Weight
- Should be at least 5'2.
- Again slim...not fat/heavy or anorexic..

Okay, so a lot of asian (for some reason they're the only
race that does well fitting this profile, but there are times
when there are exceptions) girls fit this profile really
well, but a lot of 'em still suck because they lack...
> Personality

o Intelligence Level
- If she's going to a UC that's good enough for me..
- She should know about the world and history and stuff, like
at least know what's going on..
- Good at Art or Music or both..
- Yeah, I think I like a girl who's more creatively inclined
than mathy..

o Smarts/Ambition Level
- She should be good at schoolwork.. but not a super nerd,
'cause then I'd just be scared of her. Typical, you know..
gets As and Bs.
- Has some common sense... these days common sense is
uncommon.
- Understands new stuff pretty well
- Should be ambitious (have big goals) and works to get them done.
- Is not a loser.  Losers suck.

o Fun/Fashion Level
- Should like music, media, fashion, shopping, dining and wining.., etc.
- Should dress well..
- Should be semi self-conscious of her looks; I mean girls
should care about how they look.
- Should like going out and having fun in general
- If she likes anime or games or both it's a plus!
- If she can play well at something it's even better...like
pool or tennis or something...
- She should like to laugh or be humorous..
- Does NOT smoke.
- Is not a wild party animal...that just sucks; 'cause you
don't know where she's been and what she has... I don't mind
if she likes going to parties and being a little social, but
if getting wasted and freaking is 'social', she can count me
out.
- She should like to hang out with the guys yet like hanging
out with her friends too. Like a person who can get along
with anyone.

o Stress/Tolerance/Control Level
- She should be like Simon, be able to listen to everyone's
problems, without blowing up... be a really understanding
person.
- She shouldn't be the type who fights about every little
thing.
- She should give as much as she takes... I mean if I want to
do something my way once in a while, she should respect it
and want to do it too. I mean I'm willing to take her to her
places too, but I gotta do the stuff I like too :).

o Her Background
- Should be like anyone from the 'North' crew... well loved
by family and friends, has a clean slate, should not have had
more than a few dates in the past or have boyfriends at
present still giving her problems.
- It's PERFECT if she never dated! Lol..
- No diseases, no drugs, no children from before.. I'm 20, not 40.

o Family Background
- Her family should be awesome. I hate it when pretty , nice
girls come from the families of terrorists or some explosive
family
- By awesome I mean you can get along with everyone. I've
met girls who are really nice and cute and all, but their
brothers or fathers are complete jack-asses. None of that..
- She should be well-loved by her family, and her family should
have a respectable background, and should have brought
her up very well..

o Religion
- I don't really care what religion they are; what I do care
about is if they are like an extremist. That bothers me.
- I'm in good touch with God; he's always talking to me
inside me.. I don't need someone to keep lecturing me about
how I don't seem religious... you don't know me... again the
girl should be understanding

o Politics
- Okay this crap bothers me if it's extremist again. I
prefer someone democratic... since democrats have pretty good
ideas. I don't really like the whole politics scene.
- They should support stuff that is for the good of the
country, like better education, or spending for the good of
the economy; they shouldn't be all into wars and military
crap.
- It's all about love and peace haha... but they shouldn't be
a hippie either... that's another extremist.

o Love Life..
- I want to feel loved by her, if she's like man that's
immature... that's b.s. Anything can be an expression of
love I understand, but she should know the basic stuff a guy
wants and needs just as she'd want from me..
- Should never be jealous or mistrust me... if I said I love
her, I mean it...and no one else... jealousy is stupid.